Alistair Langer in contemplative setting

Private Advisory

Where Strategy
Meets Soul

20 years bridging the boardrooms where capital is structured and the inner chambers where identity is forged. I work with founders and principals who have built everything — except the operating system that makes it make sense.

Two Ways to Work With Me

Two thresholds.
Same integrity.

I don't offer programs. I offer containers — precise, time-bound, and built around your specific inflection point. Whether you need strategic clarity or inner recalibration, every engagement begins with a single question: what is actually trying to happen here?

Offer I

Landing Your Legacy

Identity architecture for people who've already done the impossible

You're already successful. Now you want your life to make sense — not as a narrative exercise, but as a strategic asset. We work at the intersection of who you are, what you've built, and what the world actually needs from you next.

This is not business coaching. This is the work of distilling decades of complexity into a single, resonant signal — the line your board will orient around, the story your capital will serve, the legacy your name will carry.

  • Legacy positioning and narrative clarity
  • Identity architecture — aligning inner truth with outer strategy
  • Strategic differentiation — becoming a category of one
  • Capital-aligned purpose — connecting your story to your portfolio
  • Integration of family, business, and personal mission

Rooted in

  • 20 years advising family offices, regenerative funds, and high-level founders
  • 74 long-form conversations with system innovators on Catalyzing Radical Systemic Change
  • Ongoing collaboration with Peta Milan on regenerative philanthropy frameworks
  • Senior Partner at 783 Capital Partners — capital readiness, structuring, and strategy
  • 17+ years of B2B consulting across impact, technology, and systems change

Engagements from $5,000 — bespoke for scope

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Offer II

Threshold Work

Contemplative guidance for leaders at an inflection point

For those who need not more strategy — but more space. When the next decision isn't a spreadsheet problem but an identity problem. When something old is dying and you don't yet know what's being born.

I have accompanied individuals and small groups through deep contemplative experiences — from extended meditation and somatic practices rooted in 23 years of personal practice, to carefully held transpersonal encounters for those called to go further. My path began with Willigis Jäger at 17, deepened through a Kundalini awakening at 22, continued through study in India, and has been informed by the Shipibo, Wixárika, and Bwiti traditions. The contemplative ground came first; everything else grew from it.

  • 1:1 or couples — on-site immersive containers (weekend or extended)
  • Deep meditative practice, somatic work, and breathwork
  • Transpersonal guidance for those seeking peak experiences — with or without plant allies
  • Shadow resolution and trauma-informed integration
  • Meaning-making, narrative integration, and strategic alignment post-experience
  • Ceremonial intelligence drawn from multiple lineages, not a single modality

This is for

  • Founders at a threshold — where strategy stops working because identity needs to shift first
  • Inheritors wanting to claim their own path, not just manage what was given
  • Leaders preparing for their next evolutionary leap — in business or in life
  • Couples navigating shared wealth, shared legacy, or shared transition

White-glove — priced to scope, always includes integration

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The Paradox Is the Point

Why me

Most advisors live in one world. I've spent two decades integrating domains that are usually kept in separate rooms. This integration — not any single credential — is the offering.

Contemplative Ground

23 years of meditation practice. Began with Benedictine master Willigis Jäger at 17. Academic thesis on the long-term effects of meditation on social behavior.

Strategic Depth

Senior Partner, 783 Capital Partners. 20 years in impact, family offices, and systemic change finance. 5,000+ international B2B relationships.

Transpersonal Experience

Guided individuals through contemplative and transpersonal encounters across multiple traditions — Shipibo, Wixárika, Bwiti, and contemplative monasticism.

Intellectual Range

74 episodes of Catalyzing Radical Systemic Change — guests from Dark Matter Labs to indigenous knowledge holders to consciousness researchers.

Embodied Practice

Trained solo ballet dancer (age 7–20). Kundalini awakening at 22. Darkness retreats. Somatic integration as a lived discipline, not a modality.

Relational Depth

Networked across family offices, regenerative funds, psychedelic research, indigenous communities, and systems change institutions. The weave is the work.

What Others Say

In their words

Alistair has a deep mastery of the human condition as it applies to leadership in business and life. The best leaders invest in outstanding coaches and I place Alistair firmly in that category. He is kind, intentional, intelligent, efficient and effective. He will be in my inner circle for the rest of my life.
Juan SaldanaPrincipal, P3 Markets
If I had to find the appropriate language for the Ali effect I would say he's the perfect Yangster to my essentially Yin way of acting. Alistair helped me bring them to the surface in concrete interventions at the right level. Add to this the network of global entrepreneurs that Alistair can match-make with and the value is immeasurable.
Indra AdnanCo-Initiator, The Alternative UK
During our work together, Alistair made me feel seen where I was at, really encouraging the mandate for the journey to come from my true self rather than what I think I should be aiming for. This created a blueprint for setting myself up for success.
Alexandra RobinsonAssociate Partner, Complexity Partners
Alistair is a 'whole in one' connector of worlds, wisdoms and humans. Playful but focussed and with a high dose of networking power and personal empowerment know-how.
Thomas HannCooperative Expert
You are a wizard of holding space — you made me reflect, go deep, laugh, cry, open my heart and mind, dream, plan, align and celebrate together.
Inês Guerreiro LourençoIntegral Coach
Alistair is a true connection wizard. With his coaching, I did change my inner perspective and can lighten up things for myself to guide my outer actions.
Anja GossensInnovation Lead, Staatsoper Unter den Linden

Coaching-specific testimonials available upon request.

If you've reached the edge of your current identity, let's find out in 25 minutes.

I take a limited number of clients. The first conversation is about fit — yours and mine. If it's right, you'll know.

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Typically 3–4 active clients per quarter.

Explore Catalyzing Radical Systemic Change → 74 episodes on regenerative leadership and systemic change